Monday, November 2, 2009

Conquering the Concubine









Why isn't your woman enough? You have a woman who is open with you sexually, spiritually, and emotionally. She is your best friend. On the surface you should not have any complaints. Yet you complain about her high sex drive. You inform her that she needs to tone it down. Adding insult to injury you are cheating on her with another woman. Is it that one woman alone cannot satisfy a man? You have all you need and more right there at home but your appetite for other women is insatiable. Finding contention in a monogamous relationship seems to be a daunting task. Monogamy like love is not a disease you just catch. It takes work and your relationship should be worth salvaging. Women are constantly baffled over the question of why men cheat? We have grown tiresome of blaming ourselves when men are the ones that are cheating. Are they incapable of vying for the love and affection of one woman? It seems that rejection seems too heavy a cross to bear. Often they use their rationale minds which leaves them cold and callous because they turn off their emotions. Kryptonite comes in the form of vulnerability. Fear then begins to envelope them. Often I wonder if the reason why we have so many "single" men is due to the fact they are afraid of truly being in love. The term "single" is used loosely since a lot of men consider themselves single since they are not married. Despite the fact many of them are in a committed relationships. Does the term committed sounds like lockup? Do you feel like a relationship is an institution you want to escape from?

1 comment:

  1. Committed sound like committing to something. It shouldn't be in the same sentence as lockup. Lockup is something you don't want to be or have not choice but to be in...committed is something you have a choice in

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