Cheating Heart

Battle of the Sexes: Who cheats more men or women? Before you answer that which one can you prove beyond a reasonable doubt? I guess if I ask that then I have to say who is the better liar and we all know the answer to that one. Keep it simple stupid. Guys you cannot keep your lies straight...ever. You wind up telling on yourself without even knowing it. Cheating is never the answer but it is a solution at least a temporary one. You are in love with your man and you think the world of him. Your sex life is lackluster at best and you try to implement new ideas but your man is not hearing any of it. You have exhausted all your efforts you have even got a B.O.B. In layman's terms a battery operated boyfriend he finds this to be intimidating as well. You grow tired of the mundane sex life and need some excitement in your life. You and B.O.B. are more intimate than you and your man. At your wits end you struggle with what to do. Needless to say you get swept into the arms of another man. He satisfies you beyond your wildest fantasises! Tears fall like rain pounding against your window pane. Proceed with caution this posting is in no way condoning cheating. Simply this is a means of explaining the reason for the behavior. This example does not reflect that cheating is purely sexual sometimes it gets deeper than that. I highly recommend ending the current before you move into the future. In my own experience cheating is like putting a band aid on a wound that needs stitches. If you have exhausted all your efforts push through that frustration and realize all good things come to an end. Yes I am admitting I have cheated in the past and I regretted it. That type of dysfunctional behavior does more harm than good to a relationship. The cheater's mind becomes paranoid and accusatory toward their partner. Guilt-ridden the cheater tries to rationalize his/her behavior while closely monitoring their mates. Covering their tracks pushing them to the brink of insanity. The lies grow while the memory slows. Is cheating ever worth it?