Baby Mama Drama

Fellas what's the BEST or WORST story you have when it pertains to dealing with the mother of your child? Back in the day before I became a mom I refused to date a man with a child because I did not have time for the drama that comes with the baby mama. Some women and men feel that the parent of their child belongs to them and should be there at their every beck and call. Then, in some instances both parents are respectful of one another's private lives. They develop the philosophy that as long as the relationship does not interfere with the parent-child relationship then everything is copastetic. From my personal experience I have seen men who claim they cannot stand there child's mother they even go so far as say they detest them. In those instances they were still sleeping with their child's mother. Or, the opposite they are still in love and care for her and really want to be with her instead of you. Children and dating are an interesting mix. Although we would love to maintain the strong family unit we have to be honest that it is not always a cohesive one. Have to be isn't always meant to be.