Does my sexiness upset you?

What does sexy mean to you? Sexy is synonymous with the physical attributes one possesses. Sexy has a certain ring to it makes you want to kick it up a notch. It is all about confidence. You have to have an air about you. Something that lingers when you leave the room. Confidence is often times confused with conceit. Confidence is the belief in oneself. Conceit is a defense mechanism used to deflect one's own insecurities. Confidence can be a scary thing how dare one think highly of themselves. When confidence has been taken away it is hard to gain it back. One tends to seek validation versus looking within. Determining their worth based on the opinion of others. Looking for love in all the wrong places. The journey to self worth is a long and lonely path. A walk one must take alone. To truly maintain your sexy you have to believe it. You have to look in the mirror and fall in love with the person staring back at you. Sexy is the energy you exude. Confidence seeps out of you. Confidence is an essential tool in the game of life. Dreams are deferred when confidence is not in place. You must first convince yourself before you can convince anyone else. Stop basing how you perceive yourself on how others see you. Don't let society dictate who you are.